Custom memorials allow those left behind to erect a personalized tribute to someone they have lost. The idea behind customizing memorials is to allow mourners to help design something that captures the essence and spirit of the deceased. Grave markers can have poems inscribed upon them, bas relief portraits, or porcelain photos (among other things) that help make the graveside a place for reflection and tribute.
Most cemeteries place restrictions on the type of memorial that can be placed in the cemetery. You may have designed a beautiful memorial, but if it does not fit within the cemetery's guidelines, you will not be able to install it. Ask the funeral parlor what types of grave markers are acceptable. Does the cemetery have any color or material restrictions? Are certain sizes prohibited? Are certain styles prohibited? Ask for a printed list of all restrictions before ordering any custom memorials.
Size, material, color, and design are the key stylistic elements to consider when designing a memorial. Stroll around the grounds of the cemetery for examples that fit your family's taste and style. .Many dealers will have examples of their work you can look at to get ideas as well. Think of the person to be memorialized. What would best capture their essence?
Custom memorials can be purchased from independent headstone/monument dealers and from the cemeteries themselves. A good dealer will have compassion, knowledge, a high quality product, accessibility, and good customer service. Ask to see what they think are the best examples of their work. Ask them why they chose those examples.