Choosing child headstones is a task that no one ever imagines having to do. Dealing with the grief of losing a child is incredibly painful-often unbearable. Even though we cannot bring that loved one back to us, we can honor them through a memorial. Choosing a memorial affords us the opportunity to leave a lasting reminder of someone who was so precious to us. Choosing a children's headstone helps us navigate those first days of grief as well.
Most parents do not want to be forced to select from a set list of standard designs when selecting child headstones. They want something unique that will express the dreams they had for their child. They need a memorial that reflects the beautiful life of their child. They want something to which they can return for years to come where they will have an opportunity for reflection.
Size, material, color, and design are the key stylistic elements to consider when designing a child's memorial. Many dealers will have examples of their work you can look at to help you form ideas. What did they love to do? What were their aspirations? Does a phrase they uttered stand out? Did they write poetry that could be inscribed on their marker? Is their a religious verse that would be appropriate?
Before you decide on a child headstone, you should know that some cemeteries may not allow upright child headstones. Some only allow lawn level granite or bronze grave markers. Other cemeteries designate different sections of the cemetery to different headstone styles. The type, size, and style of the grave marker you choose may be somewhat limited by the cemetery. A good designer, however, will give you ideas for working within the cemetery's guidelines.